Thursday, September 10, 2009

Day 17: Expressing Gratitude


When my husband Malcolm was playing football as a junior in high school, he underwent shoulder surgery. After the surgery Malcolm was unsure of his ability to come back and play well for his senior year. Since he first started playing pee-wee football, Malcolm's dream was to play college ball. Getting in shape for the next season was critical to the manifestation of this goal.

One day his Calculus teacher, Mr. Jennings stopped Malcolm after class and asked how he was doing since his surgery. Discouraged, Malcolm told him he wasn't sure he would ever be able to play well again. Mr. Jennings offered to help Malcolm train each day during the spring. The informal sessions continued on through the summer. Apparently, Mr. Jennings had been a track coach and knew a lot about endurance training. At the beginning of his senior season, Malcolm was in the best shape he had ever been. By Christmas he was offered the scholarship he had long dreamed of.

That was 36 years ago. A few years ago, Malcolm picked up the phone and called Mr. Jennings to tell him how much he appreciated what he had done for him and what a difference he had made in his life. The moment was tender, old friends enjoying one another. The ebb and flow of giving...receiving...giving...receiving washing over both.

Yesterday we considered the benefits of having an "attitude of gratitude." How about if we take it one step further? For our renewal practice today, take a moment and express your gratitude to someone who has had a positive impact in your life.

Is there someone in your life who has had a significant impact on you? Would you like to take a moment to call or write them and let them know how grateful you are? When you do, feel free to share your experience. Namaste

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